Have you ever been pressured? Have you ever been bombarded of “to-do” stuffs and just can’t fit them all to your busy schedule? I have been and still am.
Others who don’t know me that much might think that I’m just giving excuses for me not to do all my responsibilities especially in school. As a class president, it requires me so much of me. Yeah, you heard it right so much of me. It requires me to lengthen my patience, to share a bit of myself, to sacrifice my time as well as my effort, and even sometimes it requires me to be humiliated and be scolded by the school authorities. Not really scolded but rather be reprimanded.
I’m not just a class president, most of the time I’m selected to be the group leader of different activities. Most of them (*THEM refer to my colleagues) see me as lax and a happy go lucky person. I’m really not. I just want to take time thinking what should be done rather than doing something without proper planning and preparation. See? I’m not what you think I am.
Stop with all the blabbing and let’s get to the point.
What I’m trying to say here is that sometimes people might see us in a way that they shouldn’t be. We are living in a diverse world and not in a controlled laboratory where subject A can be cloned like subject B. That’s lame and fairytale-like. We are all unique, extraordinary, and odd. I mean peculiar.
Yes I’m not perfect and sometimes I have the tendency to misjudge people or even my closest friends with their actions and words but that’s reality. Sometimes, we are the judge, and sometimes we are the ones being judged. That’s life, deal with it.
But you see it’s not about how we see others but it’s about how we see OURSELVES that will give others good judgment toward us. It is how we carry ourselves. It is about how we deal with the people around us. If others see me as lax, maybe I am showing them I am. So, this is another reality check, a self-evaluation.
Don’t mind them. Mind you. I mean mind your own self, your own little, big world and you’ll see that others will see you in a different light, a better view.
Others who don’t know me that much might think that I’m just giving excuses for me not to do all my responsibilities especially in school. As a class president, it requires me so much of me. Yeah, you heard it right so much of me. It requires me to lengthen my patience, to share a bit of myself, to sacrifice my time as well as my effort, and even sometimes it requires me to be humiliated and be scolded by the school authorities. Not really scolded but rather be reprimanded.
I’m not just a class president, most of the time I’m selected to be the group leader of different activities. Most of them (*THEM refer to my colleagues) see me as lax and a happy go lucky person. I’m really not. I just want to take time thinking what should be done rather than doing something without proper planning and preparation. See? I’m not what you think I am.
Stop with all the blabbing and let’s get to the point.
What I’m trying to say here is that sometimes people might see us in a way that they shouldn’t be. We are living in a diverse world and not in a controlled laboratory where subject A can be cloned like subject B. That’s lame and fairytale-like. We are all unique, extraordinary, and odd. I mean peculiar.
Yes I’m not perfect and sometimes I have the tendency to misjudge people or even my closest friends with their actions and words but that’s reality. Sometimes, we are the judge, and sometimes we are the ones being judged. That’s life, deal with it.
But you see it’s not about how we see others but it’s about how we see OURSELVES that will give others good judgment toward us. It is how we carry ourselves. It is about how we deal with the people around us. If others see me as lax, maybe I am showing them I am. So, this is another reality check, a self-evaluation.
Don’t mind them. Mind you. I mean mind your own self, your own little, big world and you’ll see that others will see you in a different light, a better view.
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